Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know
Answers on venues, legal ceremonies, costs, suppliers and planning a wedding or event in the UK, Spain and across Europe.
Wedding and event questions, answered
The questions couples and clients ask us most, grouped by topic. If yours is not here, send us a message and one of our planners will reply.
Working with us
Who we are, what we do and how to begin. Meet the planners on our about us page.
What types of events do you plan?
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We plan weddings and elopements, private celebrations such as birthdays, hen parties, engagements and christenings, and corporate events from Christmas parties to product launches and client experiences.
Where do you plan weddings and events?
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Our office is in Marbella on the Costa del Sol, and we plan across Spain, Portugal, Italy, Greece, France, Croatia, Malta, Cyprus, Turkey, Gibraltar, the UK and Ireland. See all our wedding venues by destination.
Why choose Swish Soirées to plan our wedding?
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We offer a complete service: planning and on-the-day coordination, plus honest guides to venues and vendors with costs, what is included and what to ask, so you can compare your options and make an informed choice. Our four planners speak English, Spanish and German.
How do we get started?
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Tell us about your plans through our enquiry form. We arrange a free, no-obligation call, then send a clear, itemised proposal for the level of support you need.
How far in advance should we book?
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Twelve to eighteen months is ideal, especially for Saturdays in peak season, but we regularly plan beautiful weddings and events on shorter timelines, so get in touch whatever your date.
What services do you offer?
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Full and partial wedding planning, on-the-day coordination, venue and vendor sourcing and event management, plus catering, flowers, photography, content creators and entertainment through trusted suppliers.
What is the difference between a wedding planner and a wedding coordinator?
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A wedding planner works with you for months, finding the venue, managing the budget, booking suppliers and shaping the design. A coordinator usually joins six to eight weeks before the wedding to confirm details, brief suppliers and run the day.
Do you offer on-the-day wedding coordination?
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Yes. If you have planned the wedding yourselves, we take on your suppliers, timeline and details in the final weeks, then run the day itself so you can relax and enjoy it.
How involved will we be in the planning?
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Entirely up to you. Some couples love being hands-on, while others prefer to hand over the details and simply approve the big decisions. We shape our support around you.
Can you plan our wedding from the UK or Ireland?
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Yes, and most of our couples do. We handle everything on the ground, arrange virtual and in-person viewings and keep you updated at every step, so distance is never a barrier.
Can you organise multi-day wedding celebrations?
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Yes. Many couples celebrate over a whole weekend, and we coordinate welcome dinners, the wedding day and farewell brunches into one seamless experience.
Can you plan intimate weddings and elopements?
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Of course. We plan celebrations of every size, from elopements and intimate gatherings to weddings for hundreds, with the same care and attention to detail.
Finding the right venue
Our wedding venues guide covers types of hire, costs, contracts and what to ask on a viewing.
Can you help us find and book a venue?
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Yes, it is one of our specialities. We shortlist venues to suit your style, guest numbers and budget, arrange the viewings, check the contract and negotiate the booking on your behalf.
What is a dry hire wedding venue?
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A venue hired as an empty space. You bring in every supplier yourselves, usually the caterer, bar, furniture, staff, lighting and sometimes toilets and power. It gives you the most freedom but the most to organise, which is why most dry hire weddings use a planner.
What does exclusive use mean?
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The whole venue is yours for the day or weekend, with no other events or public guests on site. Many villas and estates include the accommodation and ask you to book it for two or three nights.
What is a minimum spend?
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The least you must spend with the venue, usually on food and drink, whatever your final guest numbers. If your bill comes in under it, you pay the difference.
Which venue styles do you work with?
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Beach venues, sea view terraces, mountain venues, rustic fincas and barns, private villas, hotels, golf clubs, castles and châteaux. See our types of wedding venue guide.
Legal and symbolic ceremonies
The rules differ by country. Each destination page explains them in detail.
Do we need to marry legally abroad, or can we have a symbolic ceremony?
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Both are possible. Many couples complete the legal marriage at home and hold a symbolic ceremony abroad, which gives complete freedom over the setting and timing. A legal civil or religious ceremony is also possible in many countries, and we guide you through the requirements.
Where is it easiest to marry legally abroad?
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Cyprus and Malta are the simplest, with no residency requirement and ceremonies in English. Portugal, Italy, Greece and Croatia allow legal weddings for visiting couples with more paperwork. In Spain and France, residency rules mean most visiting couples have a symbolic ceremony. See our Cyprus and Malta guides.
Can we get legally married in Spain?
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Civil weddings in Spain usually require at least one of you to be resident, so most couples from abroad marry legally at home and hold a symbolic ceremony in Spain. See our wedding venues in Spain guide.
How do we get married legally in the UK?
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In England and Wales you give notice at your local register office at least 29 days before, then marry at a licensed venue. In Scotland a celebrant can marry you almost anywhere. See our UK wedding venues guide.
Can you help with marriage paperwork?
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Yes. We explain the options for a legal, symbolic or religious ceremony, help you gather and translate the right documents, and confirm the current requirements with the local authorities, as rules can change.
Wedding costs
Every destination page has a sourced cost table, and our packages and prices page shows our own fees.
How much does a wedding or event cost?
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It depends on guest numbers, venue, destination and style. As a guide, the average UK wedding costs £20,604 (Bridebook 2026), the average Spanish wedding €25,183 (Bodas.net 2026) and the average Irish wedding €34,392 (weddingsonline 2025). We build a clear, itemised plan around your priorities.
What is the average cost of a wedding in Spain?
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The average Spanish wedding costs €25,183 for around 123 guests, with the venue and reception taking about 53% of the budget (Bodas.net 2026). Destination weddings vary widely with guest numbers and venue, and we give you an itemised quote.
How much does a wedding planner cost?
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Couples in the UK spend around £1,543 on a planner (Bridebook 2026), and full organisation in Spain typically costs €1,500 to €3,500 (Trustlocal 2026). See our planner costs comparison.
Is a wedding abroad cheaper than at home?
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Often the wedding itself costs less in Spain, Portugal, Greece, Cyprus or Turkey than a comparable UK wedding, but guests pay for travel and accommodation. We cost both options properly so you compare real numbers.
Suppliers & styling
Guides to catering, flowers, photography, content creators and entertainment.
Can you recommend trusted wedding suppliers?
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Yes. We source photographers, videographers, caterers, florists, musicians, DJs, celebrants, children's entertainers, transport and bar services through a trusted network built over many weddings.
Can we use our own suppliers?
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Usually, yes. Some venues have an approved supplier list or charge a fee for outside caterers, so we check the venue's rules before you book anyone.
Do you arrange catering and drinks?
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Yes, from canapés and sharing feasts to private chefs, hog roasts, cocktail bars and wedding cakes. See our wedding catering guide.
Can you arrange entertainment?
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Yes: DJs, live bands, singers, photo booths, magic mirrors, 360 video booths and flower walls. See our wedding entertainment guide.
Guests, travel & the weekend
Can you help with guest accommodation and travel?
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Yes. We help with hotel recommendations, room blocks, airport transfers and guest transport, so everyone arrives on time and gets home safely.
Do you arrange pre-wedding and post-wedding events?
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Yes, from welcome drinks and rehearsal dinners to next-day brunches and guest excursions, so everyone enjoys the whole celebration.
How long does it take to plan a destination wedding?
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Most couples plan over twelve to eighteen months, though we have delivered beautiful weddings on much shorter timelines. The earlier you start, the more choice of venues and suppliers you will have.
What happens if the weather is bad?
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Every wedding we plan has a proper plan B, whether that is an indoor space, a marquee or shade for extreme heat. We check it at the venue viewing and confirm it in the final weeks.
Tips, ideas & inspiration
Advice and inspiration from the weddings and events we plan across Europe and the UK.

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